Friday, October 8th, 2010 at
5:57 pm
Seems a strange question to ask doesn’t it?
If like me, you have struggled constantly with that demon “inner voice” of yours then you will have battled with this question. Most of us have to fight the momentum that that our “inner voice” builds in us only to find ourselves being led ….(no, pulled) down the road to mediocrity at best and a pre-destined expectation of failure.
What a way to live our lives. If that isn’t self sabotaging ourselves and our chances of reaching success then I don’t know what is!
Perception is reality. That is a very powerful statement and is so accurate and true of most people. First impressions, gut instinct, a feeling or hunch? However you wish to describe it the perception you create is very often true to you and your energy.
Examine your actions, activities and energy – more often than not you will see why people have made a good or bad assessment of you.
If you truly believe that you ARE worthy then your actions, your integrity and energy will synergise to make you wear that set of clothes. If you do NOT believe you are worthy then you will just as easily fit into those clothes.
Either way, you will grow into that story, …that disposition, that attitude.
Good news is we can all choose to be truly worthy of the best, the pinnacle of achievement. Sure, it’s not an easy battle – but one worth fighting.
What do you say? Let’s silence that “inner voice”.
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4:07 pm
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Tuesday, January 19th, 2010 at
6:37 pm
Creating “real wealth” or financial freedom to live your dreams and achieve your goals is more about having the “right mindset” than anything else. If you are to really succeed and craft a life of magnificence then it is crucial that you completely ban all negative thinking from your mind. It will take time and much tenacity but it is like any activity really – stick at it and stay committed to it and you can change your internal dialogue to something that will support you and your life goals.
The subconscious mind is constantly challenging your new thoughts and trying to help you sabotage your success. That “inner voice” (which I’m sure we all can relate to) works very hard to ensure we stumble on our path to success. It is so constant it could almost be our shadow!
Blaming someone else for something that has gone wrong may be natural but it is so very corrosive and addictive. Complaining about a set of circumstances or justifying a situation won’t change the outcome for you. Whilst it is the most natural reaction, it will destroy your financial aspirations and ultimately stop you getting the results that you really want to achieve.
The wealthy recognise that all of their “internal thoughts and dialogue” have to be authentic and come from a position of high integrity in order to have any chance of translating into success.
They also recognise that by underwriting their actions with very specific goals for the short, medium and long-term they can stay on track to achieve successful outcomes. Without that goal plan they would be setting themselves up for failure.
So, start by writing down some goals and planning today to change things for the better!
Monday, December 21st, 2009 at
4:14 pm
For most of us we have been conditioned from an early age to “think small” and often “very small”.
Without realising it we take on board much of the negative conditioning that bombards us from all angles, TV, press, media. Whilst some of that may be “well-meaning” and often coming from our friends and family, it is damaging beyond belief. It holds us back and stops us from ever trying to stretch ourselves and sabotages us from reaching our true potential.
It is but one of the reasons why many people end up financially bereft or even broke and living an unfulfilled life. A good friend of mine only knows one way to live and believe me he constantly thinks BIG making him one of the highest 32 year old achievers that I know.
BIG THINKING together with BIG ACTIONS empowers people to overcome major obstacles and to attain real wealth in their lives. Just make a start by swapping those mediocre small thoughts to BIG thoughts, BIG goals and see the difference it will make to your results.
Not only that you will begin to feel better about yourself ……and it is FREE!
Thursday, December 17th, 2009 at
3:32 pm
Quite often people say that money isn’t important. It’s usually an indicator that they don’t have much money or certainly not enough money to perhaps be in the position that they might like to be in. You can bet they are not achieving or living the lifestyle of their choice.
The Rich on the other hand understand the importance of money and how to prioritise it in their lives. They know how to get it in a seemingly effortless way and how to maximise the use of their money to create a life of freedom and choice on their own terms!
The Rich also tend to work on the basis that money has a massive power to be used to help society and to empower and change the lives of individuals. A far better outcome than not having enough money to help yourself, your family or other people who are in desperate need.
The message? Money IS Important on many levels and the difference you can make is immeasurable. It is all about how you to choose to utilise its power for good!
Tuesday, December 1st, 2009 at
4:47 pm
For most of us we have spent our lives being marketed to and often buying that car or other consumer product. Once we have acquired it – it has lost us money. We all have aspirations and dreams and the marketing machine in our society is relentless.
People who are rich or get rich take a different approach to the acquisition model. They buy assets, often of various types and will grow their wealth by investing in those asset classes. Over time those assets will all produce substantial returns BEFORE they go out and buy their consumer toys.
Poor people on the other hand are led by the “instant gratification – get it now” mentality and will take on finance for all manner of types of products from televisions to domestic appliances an end up over-paying massively on credit cards at ridiculous interest rates for items that will have no residual value.
As a result they will spend their lives just trying to get ahead and feeling life is tough.
Rich people on the other hand will collect land, property, stocks – Poor people will mostly collect bills.
Friday, November 20th, 2009 at
4:32 pm
Most people stay within their comfort zone and rarely stretch themselves outside of what they feel comfortable with. It is only when you get outside of that comfort zone and push yourself to do what you feel is difficult, scary (or even impossible) for you that you will experience a breakthrough.
By pushing yourself beyond those limiting beliefs which control all of us you begin to perceive what is really possible and if you keep taking the same small steps they lead to bigger steps and bigger breakthroughs that will change the very core of you as a person. Those changes will be noticeable to all around you and you progress will be phenomenal.
Your ability to create wealth is directly in proportion to your comfort zone.
So set BIG Goals to make BIG Changes and you will find your abilty to earn magnified many times!
Friday, June 26th, 2009 at
11:28 am
Wealth Creation begins with getting an understanding of yourself. Rich people believe that they create all of the outcomes in their lives.
In other words, they have the ability to correct any deviations away from their goals. Poor people on the other hand believe that “life happens to them” and that they have no control whatsoever over how things turn out.
If you want to create real wealth in your life then you must believe that YOU are the one who is creating the success, lack of success or the mediocrity you may be experiencing right now.
Tuesday, June 9th, 2009 at
11:01 am
Everything is Energy. So attracting money into your life demands you creating enough of the right focussed energy to create the momentum needed to make change happen. Getting enough of the right food, exercise and sleep will help you operate at your peak – obvious enough, but “the obvious” is most often what we all ignore.
Money is Energy and BIG money takes BIG energy! Those who achieve financial freedom play at the top of their game every day and that is what makes them the winners they become.
So learn to Become! Become who and what you want to become – it’s really not that difficult.
Monday, June 1st, 2009 at
6:01 pm
Rich people play the money game to win. Their goal is to create massive wealth and abundance. Poor people play the money game to not lose. Their goal is survival and security and by definition is it impossible for them to reach their full potential. The difference in thinking is crucial.